What do you do when life gets tough? What do you do when the situation is beyond your control?
Ask yourself these questions. Nobody lives a life that is entirely under their control. Learning to cope with hardships, handling a situation that gets out of hand, knowing what to do when something isn’t going according to the plan is very important.
So, what do you do? How do you handle it?
Sometimes, we have unhealthy responses. For instance, we might get angry at the world and lash out. Do you blame others if something goes wrong? Do you get angry and upset? Do you sulk?
This is not a healthy response. It will alienate you from others and prevent you from fixing the situation or
learning from your mistakes.
Do you, perhaps, start to lose patience? Do you give up or stop trying?
That’s another troublesome response. It can mean you won’t reach your goals, that you will give up early.
How we handle difficulties says a lot about us. But even if we have not been doing the best job, it’s never too late to change this pattern and create a new one.
We can’t avoid our issues. We can’t deflect blame or give up. Instead, we need to face them directly and take responsibility.
You can try to find new ways of handling difficult situations. Promise yourself to weather the storm without moving, without anger, and without surrender.
Ask yourself what can help you stand strong in the face of issues? What can support you?
Often, it’s as easy as shifting our perception. Let yourself take responsibility – it’s not as bad as it seems.
Once you take the responsibility to act, you will see that it’s not as difficult as it seemed. Any obstacles in your path won’t be there forever. It is also useful to learn what makes the situation more complex.
Take a look to recognize and prevent these situations in the future.
Everything changes and a bad day doesn’t mean that tomorrow will also be bad. You are far more likely to see a positive change.
Be on the lookout for the silver lining. There are always good things to consider and appreciate.
Make the choice and the commitment to become more resilient. Sometimes, that’s all that it takes.